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View ArticleDealing With Difficult Emotions
A few weeks ago I went on vacation with my family to California and we had the opportunity to visit Sequoia National Park as well as some other sights that were simply breathtaking. From all the...
View ArticleBlack & White Thinkers vs Relational Thinkers (an Introduction)
As I have looked back at my counseling throughout the years, I have noticed that there has been a certain population I have a difficult time connecting with and counseling. It’s not that the counsel...
View ArticleBlack & White Thinking Through a Biblical Lens
As we continue to explore Black & White Thinking through the lens of Scripture (see 1st post here), we want to acknowledge a couple of things: 1) Black & White Thinking is a type of lens or...
View ArticleGrace & the Black & White Thinker
This is part three of the Black & White Thinker Series. Click for The Introduction (Part 1) or Black & White Thinking Through a Biblical Lens (Part 2). Today, I wanted to look at the most...
View ArticleBlack & White Thinking – A Mental Illness?
This is Part 4 in the Black & White Series. Click here for Part 1, Part 2, & Part 3. So far, I have been viewing Black & White Thinking as a type of thinking that, like Relational...
View ArticleBlack & White Thinking in Depression
The following blog is Part 5 in the Black & White Thinking Series. Click on the links for Part 1 (Introduction), Part 2 (Biblical Lens), Part 3 (Grace), and Part 4 (Mental Illness?). According to...
View ArticleBlack & White Thinking in Anxiety
The following is Part 6 in the Black & White Thinker Series. Click on these links for Part 1 (Intro), Part 2 (Biblical Lens), Part 3 (Grace), Part 4 (Mental Illness?), and Part 5 (Depression)....
View ArticleWhen Black & White Thinking is Ruled by Pride
This is part 7 in the Black & White Thinking Series. Click on these links for Part 1 (Intro), Part 2 (Biblical Lens), Part 3 (Grace), Part 4 (Mental Illness?), Part 5 (Depression), and Part 6...
View ArticleThe Black & White Thinking Christian
Here’s Part 8 of the Black & White Thinking Series. I would encourage you, at minimum, to read Part 1 (Introduction), Part 2 (Biblical Lens), and Part 3 (Grace) before reading this blog. Part 4...
View ArticleBlack & White Thinking in Anger
Here is Part 9 in the Black & White Thinking Series. Please click on the respective links for Parts 1-8: Part 1 (Introduction), Part 2 (Biblical Lens), Part 3 (Grace), Part 4 (Mental Illness),...
View ArticleBlack & White Thinking in Relationships: Differences in Men & Women
Below is Part 10 in the Black & White Thinking Series. Please click on the respective links for Parts 1-9: Part 1 (Introduction), Part 2 (Biblical Lens), Part 3 (Grace), Part 4 (Mental...
View ArticleWhen You Are Disappointed in God
One of the most read blogs I have written is “When You Are Disappointed With Your Spouse.” I guess this blog has been read often because in marriage, we are often disappointed. Our spouses, quite...
View ArticleWhen You are Disappointed in Your Life
“This is not the way that it’s supposed to be. My life was not supposed to go like this. I should be in a different place. I should be with different people. I should have been born in a different...
View ArticleWhen You are Disappointed in Yourself
“I can’t believe I did that…again. I am so stupid! Why can’t I stop! Why did I say that? Why did I do that? You’d think I’d know better. Loser. Idiot. Stupid.” If we talked to others the way we...
View ArticleEmotions and the Black & White Thinker
Texting your emotions through emoticons (emoji’s) is easy. Expressing your emotions well can be a little more difficult. Working through your emotions, on the other hand (acknowledging, them,...
View ArticleA Poem: Dependence
DEPENDENCE To be dependent & needy, is there any worse thing than to be incapable of handling most everything. I know that I should do all that I can because that is what defines the measure of a...
View ArticleRe-Blog: Reading Your Bible Relationally
Re-blogged from Sermon Central by Lance Witt on May 19, 2017 Replenish Ministries NOTE: As I’ve been working through a Black & White Thinking Series, this blog caught my eye on how Black &...
View ArticleI’m Just Not That Motivated: Part 2
It’s been 4 years since I’ve written Part 1. No, it wasn’t that I was unmotivated to write a Part 2, but I noticed that since the original “I’m Just Not That Motivated” had quite a few clicks, I...
View ArticleBlack & White vs Relational Thinkers: An Introduction (Part 2)
For Black & White Thinkers vs Relational Thinkers, Part 1, click here. It’s been 6 months since I wrote the first blog on Black & White Thinking. After receiving some feedback from others and...
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